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I can't believe that what I feel is really happening to me
Make it hurt
And point the finger at my insecurities
Well I guess I just don't understand about those complexities in your mind
And I guess I just don't understand why this world seems so unkind
Maybe just once I get what's coming to me.

**"Maybe Just Once" - Nine Inch Nails**

Wednesday, July 14, 2004

Why are decisions so hard to make? Which part is tougher: actually making the decision, or trying to figure out what to decide? Is it worse when choosing something may hurt someone? Should there be a time limit on decisions, especially when someone else is waiting for you to make up your mind? It seems to me that people like to choose things based on the choice that will hurt the least amount of people. But, is it worse if your decision hurts several people who you don't care too much about, or when your decision will hurt someone you care very much about? Should you always be selfish in your choices? What if the many people you hurt you will soon be leaving? Would hurting them be okay then since you will not see them for a while and perhaps give them time to adjust? Is it possible to make a major decision without having anyone be hurt in the process? Are you the kind of person who likes to dwell on things? The kind who second-guess everything? The kind who wants everyone to just get along? Do you think with your heart, your brain or your gut? Are you an impulse thinker, or do you make a pros & cons list? I am the kind of person who dwells and who thinks about what my decision would do to everyone involved, and even those who aren't involved. What if the decision will affect you but isn't yours to make? Would you try to influence the person making it, or would you back off so they can be free to make their own choices? Do you believe in luck, fate or coincidence? Sometimes you can't help influencing people. It may not be your intention to, but it may happen anyway. Would you feel guily afterward? Especially if you've knowingly put pressure on the person to choose one or the other and they choose the side you wanted. Would you be happy or guilty? All you can hope for is that, whatever the choice(s) are, everything works out for the best. Of course, there's nothing wrong with hoping you get your way too...

On another note, I made these little icons because I was bored. They *kinda* look like me. Kinda.

On a third note (later in the evening), I just got back from grocery shopping with my dad and I decided to get that new Silhouette Delicioso yogurt and, damn, is it ever good!

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